More awareness, less spiral
Notice patterns sooner, before they shape what you do, choose, or apologise for.
LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy course
Overcoming loneliness.
Let Spifey guide you through feelings of disconnection and help you reconnect with others (and yourself).
Self-pacedBuilt by queer cliniciansIn the Kalda appPrivate and secure
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Inside the course
6 guided sessions.
Short, practical and queer-led. Take them in order or jump to whatever lands for you today.
Understanding loneliness
Exploring relationship with self
Recognising positive thoughts
Self belief and self-worth
Understanding values
Values and social activities
What you'll come away with
Awareness, language, and tools that stay.
Practical tools you can use today
Step-by-step techniques drawn from CBT, ACT and DBT, translated through queer clinical experience.
Built for queer life
Every prompt, exercise and example is written knowing identity, safety and chosen family are part of the picture.
Get the app
Take Kalda with you.
Every course lives in the Kalda app, alongside the tools and community that make them stick. Download it free on iOS or Android.
Therapist-led courses
The full Kalda library of video courses, made by queer clinicians for queer lives.
At your own pace
Short sessions you can watch anywhere. Pause, rewatch, and return whenever you need to.
More than courses
Daily journal prompts and affirmations tuned to your needs, and a library of meditations.
Free to download
Start with the app today. Full access is available inside via a monthly or annual plan.
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Free to download
The app is free on iOS and Android. Explore first, and unlock full access inside whenever you're ready.
FAQ
Common questions.
Will this help if I do not have queer community nearby?
Yes. The course covers values-led connection, online community, and the internal relationship-with-self work that supports connection in any setting. Geography matters less than people assume, much of the work is internal, and the external piece doesn't have to be local.
Is loneliness the same thing as being introverted?
No. Introversion is a preference for less social input; loneliness is the painful gap between the connection you want and the connection you have. The course is for the second, not the first.
Can I be lonely while in a relationship or with lots of friends?
Yes, and this is more common than is talked about. The course addresses relational loneliness (feeling unseen by people you know) as well as social loneliness (not knowing enough people). The internal work applies to both.
How long are the modules?
Each session is bite-sized, typically 10 to 20 minutes. The course is fully self-paced, so you can pause, return, and re-watch whenever feels useful.
What format is the course in?
Short therapist-led video sessions in the Kalda app, paired with reflective exercises you can do in-app or in your own notebook. Everything is private to you.
How much does Kalda cost?
The Kalda app is free to download on iOS and Android. Full access to this course and every other course in the library is a monthly or annual subscription, purchased in the app. Current prices are always shown in the app before you commit to anything.
Is Kalda only for LGBTQIA+ people?
Kalda is built by and for queer people, and the content assumes a queer reader. Anyone is welcome to take a course; the framing, examples and clinical context are written through a queer lens throughout.
What if I am in crisis?
Kalda is not a crisis service. If you are in crisis, please contact Samaritans (116 123), Shout (text "Shout" to 85258), or NHS 111. Our safeguarding page lists all routes.